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A death doula tends to the practical, emotional, and social needs of a person transitioning out of life. Doulas do not provide medical care — instead, they fill the gaps that exist between health care, family support, and post-death care.

Meaningful conversations are encouraged about all things related to the end of life. The whole family and circle of friends can be included at the request of the individual, and every conversation is tailored around that person's needs.

Education about the dying process is paramount to honoring each person's values, beliefs, and desires. It is never too early to begin these conversations.

An end-of-life doula works with people of all ages and in all phases of life. A chronic illness may raise questions about the future. A terminal diagnosis may bring a more immediate need to sort out wishes and desires. A sudden or tragic death may call for support to the family in planning vigils, ceremony, and burial.

Support is just as often for the people who love the person who is dying as it is for the person themselves.

That is entirely up to you and unique to your preferences. You may be planning ahead for yourself, or you may be a family member advocating for a loved one.

Giving death and dying some forethought can remove much of the anxiety about what is to come. We can explore questions you have about the dying process, dying at home versus in a facility, or comfort care options. There is no obligation and nothing to prepare.

Hospice provides medical care: pain and symptom management, nursing visits, equipment, and medication. A doula provides non-medical companionship and continuity — time, presence, planning, and emotional support that a clinical team is not staffed to offer.

Doula care complements hospice rather than replacing it, and many families use both together. You do not need to be on hospice to work with a doula.

Earlier than most people think. There is real value in beginning conversations while there is still energy and clarity for them — but it is also never too late. Some families reach out years before a death, others in the final days, and others only afterward for grief support and ceremony.

Yes. Support can include help with vigil planning, home funeral guidance, memorial and ceremony creation, and companionship through early grief. Grief does not follow a schedule, and neither does this work.

Visits happen wherever you are most comfortable: at home, in a hospital, in a care facility, or by phone or video. In-person support is offered in southeastern Wisconsin, and virtual support is available more widely.

End-of-life doula services are not currently covered by Medicare or most private insurance. Fees are discussed openly and in advance so there are never surprises, and options can be adapted to a family's circumstances.

Pricing depends on your specific circumstances and the kind of support you are requesting. I offer both package options and hourly rates, so we can shape the care around what you actually need. Some families prefer a defined package for planning, vigil, or after-death support, while others prefer hourly support that can flex as needs change.

The first 30-minute call is always free. It is a chance for you to ask questions, share your situation, and decide whether this feels like the right fit, with no obligation and no fee.

After that call, I can suggest a path and a clear fee structure that fits your situation. I also understand that every family's financial circumstances are different. If the standard fee structure feels out of reach, I am glad to talk through what feels manageable so that no one who needs this support is turned away. There are no hidden costs, and we only move forward when it feels right for everyone involved.

No. This work meets you within your own beliefs, traditions, and culture — religious, spiritual, or neither. Nothing is imposed.

Reach out for a free 30-minute conversation. From there, we shape support around what you actually need — a single planning session, ongoing companionship, or presence at the bedside.